Dave,
In addition to weight (1870lbs), I consider pressure (50psi) to be a limiting factor on my TM's factory 14" rims. I haven't seen any documentation from Trailmanor or markings on my factory rims that state otherwise. I am also not aware of any 14" rim made by any manufacturer that is limited to 1870lbs yet is also rated to 65psi. Therefore, I'm not comfortable being a test pilot and fitting a 14" load rating D tire filled to 65psi on a rim that is, most likely, limited to 50psi. In my opinion, that's not safe.
No rim manufacturer is going to authorize one to fill their rims over the maximum pressure for the rim. That a tire mounted on that rim can handle a higher pressure is irrelevant. Safety limits itself to the most restrictive component.
Here is one example from a rim manufacturer (see pg. 10):
http://www.accuridecorp.com/files/2...d-Service-Manual-ACC7-0002-Rev-4-06-22-12.pdf
Here is one example from a tire manufacturer:
http://www.tirerack.com/images/tires/goodyear/Marathon_Special_Trailer_Applications.pdf
Rim and tire manufactures both agree that one should not fill a rim (a.k.a. wheel) beyond its maximum pressure.
Lots of TM owners with 14" rims/tires have never blown their tires. Some with 15" rims/tires have blown theirs.
Did you have your 14" Kuhmo's mounted on your TM factory 14" rims or mounted on aftermarket 14" rims when they both blew out 3 years later? What was the maximum psi limitation for your rims? Just curious.
Bruce