I will flesh-out rickst29's instructions, as they may be unclear to someone not too familiar with WDH setup.
With the trailer unattached, look to see if there are adjustment bolts between the drawbar portion of the WDH and the ball-mount portion. If there is, the top bolt should be extended enough to keep the ball-mount from leaning forward. It should, at least, be "square" to the drawbar.
Then, still unattached, as rickst29 said, use the tongue jack to level the trailer. Measure from the ground to the top of the ball socket. That is the height you want your ball to be on your tow vehicle.
Adjust the ball-mount height to it matches what the ground-to-ball socket is, minus 1/4" (to allow for the metal in the ball socket). If this means moving the ball-mount up on the drawbar, or flipping the ball-mount so you can achieve that height, then that is your first adjustment.
When ball and socket are the same height (ball 1/4" lower than top of socket), engage your WDH bars. Is everything level? If not, disconnect the bars, then adjust the brackets that are mounted to the tongue, up one hole. Re-mount the WDH bars. Level now?
If not, move the mounting brackets on the tongue up one more hole, IF THERE IS ROOM. You have another bracket on the tongue, which may not allow you to move the L-bracket up two holes. If that is the case...
Disconnect trailer. Loosen the big bolts on the ball-mount. Allow the TOP of the ball-mount to roll towards the trailer. Loosen the bolt that is inside the bracket on your ball-mount. This will push the ball and the WDH bar mounts backwards/down, which in turn will put more pressure on the bars, which will lift the ball/tongue when bars are back on. Tighten the big bolts. Re-mount WDH bars to see if the ball is now at the correct height.
Not mentioned is measuring your fender heights from the ground, before and after connecting the WDH. Front and back measurements should go down the same amount (1/2" front fender well, 1/2" back fender well, for instance). You don't want the back to drop more than the front, as that will remove weight from the front axle, making steering less-stable. Don't want the front to go down more than the back, as that will un-weight the back axle.
Hope this helps clarify the process.