Need hitch advice for new 2720SL with honda odyssey

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I've just bought a new 2720sl with swing away hitch, but haven't picked it up yet. I plan to tow with a 2008 Honda Odyssey. I don't have a hitch yet. The Trailmanor site recommends using a "weight distributing hitch". However, the Trailmanor dealer tells me that for the Odyssey, the weight distributing hitch may not be compatible with the swing away hitch. Is it OK if I just use a standard hitch to tow - or do I need some kind of weight distributing mechanism? Thanks.