Desicion on WDH to buy

Hi: It looks thats inevitable to go out again without solving the tongue weight problem, i drove it home the other day withe front wheels almost up in the air. So,I knind of lean towards the Equalizer it seems the one with the less effort to set up, but the $618 tag kind of spooks me especially after the purchase of the TM andTV all in the same month, anybody has any ideas as to how hard is it to hook up one like the one Curt makes or Reese? if im going to have to go to a gym and work out in order to set it up ill have to find some of buying the Equalizer, by the way i mailed a check to Chris Tretta for membership this morning, still not to sure how to use this medium, O.K. ill wait for any replies, and again Thanks a lot. Juan Poblete (victor310)