Sally,
Those are great photos and should result in a very good solution to your problem. I am very intereted in the answers that you get.
BTW, I have not cleaned my seals either.
Does anyone know what is the proper way to clean them and the proper interval between cleaning?
My 2 cents says there is a film bonded onto the area where the seal rubs and getting a some replacement film is in order. If you are lucky, it should be ok to just stick new film on top of the original film after cleaning it real well -- maybe you need paint thinner or alcohol to clean it. A call to Ed Lytle would be in order to find out what the factory uses or have them send you some as well as finding out how to apply it. Is heat needed to cure it? does it need to be pressed on with a high presssure? I believe people on this forum have put on that film material, particularly in areas where seals rub but the material isn't installed at the factory. A search might turn these references up. I see you have abbraded the color coat off the aluminum. If you want that restored, it would be necessary to touch-up paint the area before puting on the new seal film. Such a small spot in a hard-to-see area wouldn't need to be matched very well and I would go to Home Depot to get a spray can of outdoor paint made for aluminum.